Soul Mates Do we Have one.

                                                                                                                                                     Finding true love is the most rewarding thing that can happen in anyones life. However successful happy or peaceful we are there will always be something missing from our lives untill the moment we meet our soul mate. Whoever we are whatever we do, whether we realize it yet or not, we are all searching for love. For love is the only thing that can bring spiritual and emotional fulfilment in to our lives. Is it any wounder then that we spend so much of our adult lives trying to find it.

who is my soul mate where will i find them is their anyone for me, Soul mates are two individuals who were destined to be together, for ever. We all have a soul mate, someone we have spent our lives waiting to meet and with whom we hope we can eventually share our lives. And somewhere out there is someone who is waiting to be with you. A soul mate is a special person with whom you are spiritually linked.

Between you exist a bond that can never be broken. A bond of love and understanding that transcends everything, separation, tragedy and even the grave. Between you and your soul mate exists an immutable law of attraction. It is like a magnetic force pulling us towards that special person, a force field from which we can never escape. The attraction we feel for our sole mate goes beyond anything we have felt befor, Looks age sexuality, class or background all become irrelevant because the attraction for your sole mate is deeper and more meaningful. The attraction between you two is one of the soul.

your soul mate is, therefor, someone who loves you and by that i mean all of you. It is not the way you look the way you think, what clothes you wear, it is not because of your age, your job and the friends you keep. your soul mate is someone who loves you because you are you. And from this deep deep love of you comes an understanding that you will never know from another person. The feeling that something is missing from our lives disappears as soon as we meet them. Your soul mate was put on the earth for you. From the moment your spirit was conceived you were destined to be with another soul. You and your soul mate are put together to make each others lives happier. It is one of the deepast and most profound loves we will ever experience.

We feel this way about our soul mate because the love we have for them comes not just from our hearts but from deep within our souls. And it is for this reason that the love we have for our soul mate is different from any love we have known befor or will ever know again.

 It is a love that comes from our very core of our being, it is a love that will never fade, it is a constant and unconditional love a love shared by two people who are eternally bound together.  It is mutual, unquestioning trusting, pure and always true. It  is a love that will shape your life, one that will give you strengh. The soul is the place where we are most true. It is if you like , your spiritual blueprint. It is here that we keep our desires, our innermost needs and our instincts. It is our soul that determines how we really are, it is a place our emotions come from, our empathy, our sympathy our identity. The soul is a symbol of the spiritual and non-bodily aspect of indivdual human existence.

Throughout our lives we will experience many kinds of different love, There are many loves that do come from the heart but there is only  one love, that comes from the soul. You may have had relationships in the past that were full of love, passion and affection. You may be in such a relationship now. These relationships may have been intense but short-lived affairs, or they may have lasted for many years.

You may love this person very much you may even think that you are in love with them. But there is a great difference between an affair of the heart and one of the soul. It is the difference, if you like between the physical and the spiritual. The point i am trying to make is that you can stop loving a person whom you love with all your heart. You may have feelings of love for them still, you may still like and be friends with them, but the real love has gone. This will never happen to you and your soul mate for the love that comes from deep within your soul never dies.

The spiritual love comes from an understanding of another person and ourselves. what makes us fall for our soul mate and love them is the spiritual relationship we have with them. It is not about physical attraction, money or status, It is not about what we are on the outside but who we are within. finding true love and lasting happiness is about concentrating on the spiritual side of life. once you have found this kind of love you will feel richer and better off than any millionaire.

From the moment our souls are conceived our lives are fated and will follow a predetermined course, The major events in our lives, such as our births, marriages, separations and ultimately our deaths are determined by a divine force. At our conception it is also determined who will be our soul mate. Befor we are even born in to this world another soul is paired with our own. From the earliest age of all we are spiritually linked to another person, another soul. So when you meet a couple who are described as fated to be together, the fact is they were. I know that the idea of fate is alarming to some people because they do not like the idea of not having free will. People do not like to think themselves as a puppet playing out a role that has already been determined by the higher force.What is the point of trying to make a difference to our lives when they are already fated.

Your soul mate is not necessarily the type of person you might imagine them to be. When we are young we picture ourselves living for ever with some ideal man or woman. They are probably extremely attractive, successful and well of. But as we get older and more experienced our visiopn of our perfect partner changes. this is not because we dont want to be with an attractive, wealthy person when we grow up, it is because we recognize our partner will ahve other attributes if they are to be our soul mate. Our notions of what might be perfect develop as we mature.

 Because we do not know who we are when we are very young, we do not know what we really want or need. But as you grow older you get a better picture of what you want from life.And as this happens you begin to recognize the people with whom you want to share that life.Your soul mate is a person with whom, from the onset, you have a special connection, he or she is someone to whom you are profoundly drawn, On first meeting your soul mate you will find that you instantly click, that there is rapport. You feel that their is no one eles in ther room matters.

They are someone with whom you have chemistry. You seem to spark off each other so intrigued are you by them you find yourself listening more then you want to talk. A lot of people who have met their sole mate say that there was something in their eyes that first attracted them. They say that the eyes are the windows of the soul.Your soul mate will be someone with whom you immediately feel comfortable. When you first meet, your heart may skip a beat at the mere mention of their name, and in time you should feel at one with them. You should feel safe and secure. This is a very good indication as to whether or not you are with your sole mate, because your spirits would never put you together with anyone with whom you felt insecure.Remember that you are given your soul mate so that you will be happy, Just as a parent would not want to see their child in a relationship with someone who belittles them, the spirit world has ensured that the person you are destined to be with will love respect and care for you.

You should be able to talk to your soul mate about almost any thing, however silly or trivial it might seem. They are someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and worries. A person with whom you should be able to share any thing they are your friend your confidant. Your relationship with a soul mate should be honest.You should not be afraid of telling them anything because they love you as you are They will never judge you, and whatever you do their opinion of you will not change.

Between soul mates there is an unspoken language. The spiritual connection between you both is so deep you feel so close to them that sometimes you think you can read their minds, You know when they are worried, in pain, or sad just by looking at them.It is quiet normal when you meet your soul mate to feel as though you have know them all your life, even though you may have know them for no longer then half an hour.

This is because you have this spiritual bond, because you are kindred spirits. You see, however you are compatible and similar. Befor you have know them for very long you already know what they like and dislike what they care about, what is important to them. It is more than just having something in common. It is more than just coincidence. For somewhere deep inside you know them already. It is sa though you have met in another life, and in many ways, because of your spiritual connection, you have. When you enter their home for the first time you may experience a sence of deja vu. It is as though you have seen their house in a dream.

The reason this happens is that our spirit guides like to help fate along the way, They might show you an image of your soul mate in your dreams or tell you things about them, or you will get drawn to some thing or some one, they want you to recognize your sole mate. They are helping love takes its course nudging you in the right direction.

For people who really do believe that they have known their sole mate befor it is possible that you have met in another life, in which case you will have been with your soul mate befor. But for the majority of us the fact that we have been paired as souls befor our births creates this feeling of knowing and belonging. the Link that we have as individuals makes us feel that we are at one when we do eventually meet and get togther.

Because the bond we have with our sole mate is so strong, because we feel we know them already and because of the mutual understanding we have for each other relationships between soul mates can happen almost over night. The getting to know you process is much shorter than it would be in any other relationship because their is so much between you already.

The connection that you are making is a very spiritual one so the more practical questions we would normally ask a person, such as where did you go to school, where are you from and so forth, lose their significance. You have already found your  common ground. There are so many things that make you click, so many different levels on which you relate that things you would normally discuss with a prospective lover seem irrelevant to your situation. With your soul mate you dont have to search for things in common because they already exist, You are not basing your relationship on mutual friends, common pursuites or shared experiences because you do not need to, You feel you belong with them, and that is enough. When we fall for people when we feel passionate about them or are infatuated by them, we may feel that we have found our soul mate.

 The emotions we go through at the beginning of any affair can be very similar to thoes we feel for our soul mate when we first meet them. You may feel giddy, joyful and ecstatic. You may feel feel as though you have a bond that you never wish to be parted from them. In the first stages of a love affair you may feel all these things but the real test is whether they last or not. You see love between soul mates is always like this. It doesent fade or tire, You never get bored of your soul mate or wish they were something that they are not.

If you have a choice beween two men that you canot make your mind up about then you are not with your soul mate.

If you are at all hesitant then you are not with your soul mate.

Are you with someone because they offer you security and a lifestyle you would not have on your own.

Are you with a person because their is no one eles in your life, because you want to be married, or just because you have been seeing each other for a long time.

Are you with them because you cannot bear to be on your own?.

If the  answer to any of these questions is yes then you are not with your soul mate yet.

Finding your soul mate goes hand in hand with finding out who you really are as a person. Sometimes we make mistakes in relationships because we are not paying close enough attention to what we want from life and who we want to be with. To find the right person to share your life with you have to be in touch with your identity, Often we choose people in life who are wrong for us and this is because we are not really sure what we are looking for. We think we want to be with someone because they are, fun and because they are always seem to be having a good time. But after a while the novelty of this can wear off and we find that there is nothing more to the person we have chosen to be with.

Suddenly we find ourselves not wanting but also needing more. We discover we have not got what we need and so the relationship breaks down and we are left woundering whether we will ever find the right person. Of course the right person has already been found for you, Your soul mate was matched with you befor you were even born. You are destined to be together and fate, will hopefully, will take you to them. Within your lifetime.        .